This is the never lasting question. When you are in love, you think that everything is fine and no bad thing can happen to any of you or between you. But suddenly something happens and the world isn't such a great place anymore.
Love is the most difficult thing as there are no clear rules. I had a relationship recently, I thought everything is going in the right direction, but then 1 day, it was all over. Without a word it has just ended. Since that day I keep thinking what was that one thing, which has driven us to the end, but still did not find any reason. We were different, had different background, are from different culture, but these things should make things more interesting, and not more difficult, or am I wrong?
Also my foolish heart cannot accept that it's over. I still check if he's online on chat, it's funny but it gives me a kind of security that I see him online, even if we don't speak. Though I know that the risk is there, that we will just start things all over again, and then I will be left broken hearted again.
So why do we do it? Why can't we learn from our own mistakes? Why can't we just delete someone from our heart forever?
Monday, October 1, 2007
Friday, September 28, 2007
How to make a mess in the city within minutes
Budapest is an amazing city. Something is always happening. Well we couldn't say it is a clean city as it is, we have problems with city dogs - or with their owners?!
Still, we can make an even bigger mess in the city within a minute. Every year there is a day in every distric's life, when citizens can get rid off all their rubbish. All we have to do is put the rubbish out on to the street on the given day, and then wait for the binman to come and collect it. It is a really good thing, and especially cheap for us. But this means to city just turns into a big big big rubbish dumping place. It's all over on the streets, you can't walk and of course you can't park your car. To top it all, there are always people who want to search all the rubbish to make it a bigger mess and of course us being Hungarians, the pile always gets smaller by the time the binman arrives - as we always say, 'It will be good later on!' So you can see people coming with big cars and searching through the rubbish for things they want to re-use in their household.
I have decided that I will get rid of my old cupboard as it was nearly falling apart. It took me a few hours to get it apart, another hour or so to take all the pieces down from the flat - and then 5 mins later it was all gone! A couple just came when my sis and me finished to put all the pieces out on the street, and in that minute they have started to take the pieces to their car. Hope they will be able to put it back together - good luck for you people! :)
So what is the learning of the day? - rubbish might not be rubbish, it is only a matter of looking at it from a different angle. There is always someone who can be happy with our rubbish.
Still, we can make an even bigger mess in the city within a minute. Every year there is a day in every distric's life, when citizens can get rid off all their rubbish. All we have to do is put the rubbish out on to the street on the given day, and then wait for the binman to come and collect it. It is a really good thing, and especially cheap for us. But this means to city just turns into a big big big rubbish dumping place. It's all over on the streets, you can't walk and of course you can't park your car. To top it all, there are always people who want to search all the rubbish to make it a bigger mess and of course us being Hungarians, the pile always gets smaller by the time the binman arrives - as we always say, 'It will be good later on!' So you can see people coming with big cars and searching through the rubbish for things they want to re-use in their household.
I have decided that I will get rid of my old cupboard as it was nearly falling apart. It took me a few hours to get it apart, another hour or so to take all the pieces down from the flat - and then 5 mins later it was all gone! A couple just came when my sis and me finished to put all the pieces out on the street, and in that minute they have started to take the pieces to their car. Hope they will be able to put it back together - good luck for you people! :)
So what is the learning of the day? - rubbish might not be rubbish, it is only a matter of looking at it from a different angle. There is always someone who can be happy with our rubbish.
My first blog
Well, the day has come that I created my first blog. I was reading a friend of mine's and it is so well written, I thought I will try as well. I might not be too good at the beginning, but I hope I will get better.
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