another one

well this is rare, 2 notes after each other, but hey ho :) I had dinner with an old colleague tonight (in TR), who no longer works with me, but we shared some good times in the past, I would even say we are close to be friends. We have not met for several months but still it was easy to 'continue' where we left it when he left the company. It is very interesting that he was reminding me of some things I told him a year ago, about being a grown up and what a sheltered life he has. Now nearly a year later, he is planning his wedding and his future life without expecting help from his family. Sometimes I am so surprised how 'wise' I can be without realizing it. :D

Just a note

I have not written to this blog again for a very long time... lots of things happened but there is no point listing them all. Some good things, 1 friend of mine became a father last summer and I am really happy for him. Another friend of mine is expecting her second child, one of my friend got married and I bought my own flat and already moved in.

I also met an old friend whom I have not seen at least 5 years. I did think about him occasionally but never really tried to find him. Then last September someone reminded me of him and told me he is on FB, so I tracked him down and we became FB 'friends'. He has written me messages - randomly - and as he is a guy, he didn't bother replying to all my replies. :) First I was annoyed then I realized what a fool I am and decided that I will try to be patient. I will be honest I was checking my FB account everyday to see if he has written and was disappointed that he didn't. Then got invited to a concert where we finally met, though only for 5 mins (he was the signer :)) and again, he told me he will get in touch - which he didn't for a week. So I decided I try his old number, and believe it or not, it is still working, so we did talk and agreed to meet. Again, I was pessimistic as always, and was waiting for him to cancel it. He did change the time once, but then he did call as he promised and we did meet. And it just made my day. Have you ever realized that some people are missing from your life without you even noticing it? This guy was there for me when I broke up with my boyfriend hundreds of times, and I never really appreciated it. Until now. I guess you need to age to understand the value of friends, and it doesn't matter if they don't call you every day, they don't send you messages because when you really need them, they are there. So I will try to be a good friend, not to be too demanding and accept whatever he's giving me and I hope I will not loose him again.