Feelings and needs are interesting and funny things. It is a human thing that we always want more. It starts when we are kids, we see that someone else has a brighter bike, so we want a bright want too. It doesn't matter, not for 1 second, that a brighter bike will not go faster, will not take us different routes, but still.....And this is just getting worse as we are getting older and we see more of the world. The saying is very true that money cannot make you happy, and we say it is true, but still keep on buying things to fill our needs for happiness.
We are living in a rushing world, where people do not have time to talk to each other. We send emails, we chat but we very rarely spend time with our loved ones, when all we do, is concentrate on them. Someone once told me that love is when you can be silent with someone, and just by being with each other, walking together you tell everything. It is so true. We can tell someone that we love them, we miss them and we care about them, if everything we do, says the opposite.
I know that men and women see it different, women are more emotional, and they want to hear things, but I also know that one of the reason for this, is that they can't feel it sometimes, and they need that small thing, the power of spoken words as a security, that they are loved, missed and cared about. And if we are not told and we cannot feel it either, then we just panic. So we will be asking questions, complain about everything and the whole situation can get worse, as we will not be satisfied with the answer because deep inside, we want the other person to make us feel that way.
So is there a way out of this? Possibly. Would it be easy to find? Definitely not. We can try to accept what ever is given to us and not to think about all the 'if'-s, because those will just make us feel down.
Reading what I have written made me think, what was the real purpose of this little piece of work. I am unhappy at the moment, that is for sure. I know the reason and I know that I possibly over reacting some things and maybe I should just give it a little time. But that is the hardest thing to do. And you know why, because I am made of woman who wants to be loved, missed and cared about. I want to feel it and I want to be told.
So if anyone feels this way, cheer up, there is a good in every bad, and everything has its reasons. One, definitely is to look into ourselves, be honest to ourselves and learn from our own mistakes. Because we are not perfect either.
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Well said, good way of seeing life and to know abt ourself.
Take life as it comes, dont expect more, if u expect and dont get it, we feel depressed.
I know it is easier said then done.
So enjoy every moment.All the best to you also !
We live most of our days trying to please others around us.... Little do we care as to what we actually want? It’s good to take some time out for ourselves.
Remember, we are happy living in Hell until we know that Heaven Exists…. And then
The thought of Heaven, makes Life in Hell MISERABLE.
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